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Monday, 16 November 2009

  • A Long Way to Fall

    I watched the latest Star Trek movie today.The one with a younger James T. Kirk, and a younger Spock. Younger everyone from the old tv show.

    I didn't hate it, but I didn't like it either. I worry about the writing in Hollywood these days.It seems to me all they are capable of doing is cranking remakes of better written stuff from the past. Or putting a comic book on the big screen.Star Trek would have been better named..."How many times can we have Kirk hang on for dear life over a gaping abyss?" He must have done it half a dozen times during the movie.

    So anyway, I'm having a beer and watching the flick and a nagging thought comes into my head...Who is that chick playing Spocks mum? My next thought was "did I have sex with her?" But that is neither here nor there. I couldn't place her, but I knew I recognized her.

    I watch a lot of movies, I mean a LOT. But I couldn't put my finger on this woman. I mentally thought about flicks I might have seen her in. I looked for mannerisms that might trigger a memory.She was only on screen for maybe 5 minutes, and said maybe a total of five lines so I didn't have a lot to work with.

    And then I had it. I recognized her.

    It was Winona Ryder.....Remember when she had a career? She was Hollywood royalty at one time. On all the magazines, an "A" list star. You couldn't get any bigger than Winona Ryder. She had a hot romance with Johnny Depp, and they even got engaged. He tattooed "Winona Forever" on his arm. Parts were written specifically for her. She had first choice in damn near every flick being made. Her flicks made money, teen boys wanted to do her, teen girls wanted to be her.

    She was a HUGE star.

    When Polly Klass (who lived in Ryders home town) was kidnapped out of her own bedroom , Winona Ryder went to the parents house and offered a reward of her own money for the kids safe return. This further endeared her to the world.

    Then the engagement to Johnny Depp fell apart, which should have come as no surprise, he had been engaged about 4 times previously.There were bumper stickers in Hollywood that read "Honk if you were engaged to Johnny Depp". I wish I had one. Johnny took up with Kate Moss, and Winona was alone.

    And then she was caught stealing from a department store in New York City. Shoplifting...she's a millionaire and she's shoplifting. Caught red handed, caught on tape, there was no doubt about her guilt.

    So she lied. Denied everything. She failed to say she did it and needs help.She lied.

    And all of a sudden people didn't love Winona Ryder any more. She virtually disappeared.

    There are two things I think it is safe to say that nobody likes. No one likes a thief, and no one likes a liar. She was proven to be both. She fell a LONG way.

    Now she's playing Spocks mum for 5 minutes. They even kill her so she won't be in any sequels.

    A Hollywood suicide where there was no death.

Friday, 13 November 2009

  • Um...Why Did I Want Kids????

    So I take the Legshaver in the other day to have her 4 wisdom teeth out.I try and keep the mood light, but this is hard for me. I've had my wisdoms out, I had to drive my mum home afterwards, I wrote about it. I know my daughter is in for some pain, and I don't like it when my kids are in pain. In fact, I bloody well hate it when my kids are in pain.

    She came through it very well. I was proud of her to be honest. No whining or whimpering , she just accepted it.She was a lot braver than I was when I had to pay the bill.

    I whined and whimpered a lot.

    She slept in the car on the way home , the residual of the anesthetic in her system.This was a very good thing because she doesn't feel the pain when asleep, and it stopped me from whining and whimpering.

    No point if no one hears you.

    I took her home to her mother's.I got her safely ensconced on the couch, told Sea Hag the instructions for the drugs and her care , then went to buy the drugs.

    Antibiotics....more whining, Painkillers....more whimpering. And to hell with the fact there was no one to hear. I then went and rented a couple of movies for her to watch. Hopefully it would keep her mind off her mouth.

    I rented one for me too. Hopefully it would keep my mind off my dwindling bank account.

    Total cost for the day....too fucking much!!

    I'm kidding.I would spend any amount for my girls.

    I didn't need that $2000 cluttering up my bank account anyway.I'm sure it must have been in somebody's way.

    So , my dad duty done, I felt pretty good about things. Then the phone rang this morning. Remind me...why do I have a phone anyway?? No good ever comes from ANY call I get.

    It was Sea Hag, and she was very pleasant, she always is when she calls me.She only calls me when she wants something.This call was no different.

    Cuddlebugs drama class is going to Chicago. I can only guess , but they are probably going there because the trip I paid for to New York last year so the kid could see Broadway didn't educate her enough.They will be seeing the home of Second City and taking a class there.Since I was once in the Second City Touring Company...how could I refuse to pay for this trip as well??

    And let's face it, food is really overrated. I don't need it.

    Ah well, no one ever said parenting is easy...emotionally or financially.

    Now if I could just remember why I wanted kids in the first place.....

Thursday, 12 November 2009

  • A Happy Segment in Time

    A few days have gone by since my reunion.There have been plenty of Facebook messages and some pics floating back and forth. I have had time now to digest it all, to get over the initial excitement and surprises and take it all in.My memory has been working overtime as seeing certain people have brought back things that were asleep for so very long.My only disappointment of the reunion was that my first love couldn't be there, but living in Ireland can screw up any reunion plans.

    It is funny how the brain works. The things that go through your head.

    When I was nine years old we moved to the place I really grew up in. The place where I lived when I met all the people from the reunion.My parents had done nothing to prepare me for girls, did nothing to help with the angst of finding myself liking girls, and knowing nothing of what to do about it.

    I liked girls...they just terrified me. They didn't try to, didn't mean to, but they sure as hell did.

    From grade 4 to grade 7 I had a crush on a girl. A very nice girl, cute as can be, pretty as a peach. She was always very nice to me, I think maybe she liked me...a little. But when others started "going around", I didn't ask her to go around with me.Too chicken. Too wrapped up in my parent's hangups.It was an innocent time.

    When junior high started and we were suddenly flooded with kids from a number of schools, things changed.I had a different crush each month it seemed. I hadn't lost the fear, hadn't lost the insecurity, but my desires had sure grown.
    It was awful.

    I can't speak for the girls.I know they had a LOT more to deal with than I did. But it was awful being a young teenage boy with an upbringing like mine. Hell, it can be awful being a grown man with an upbringing like mine.

    When I first heard of the reunion , I really wanted to see that girl. I got an email from her saying she saw me on Facebook and that I looked the same, had aged well. LOL I have to admit it...I was tickled. I knew she was coming to the party. I was full of anticipation. Don't get me wrong, I knew she was happily married, has kids. I wasn't expecting any romance to bloom. I just really wanted to see her again.I really did.

    She was late in arriving. I had told several people that she was who I really wanted to see.I was loving seeing ALL of them, but I really wanted to see her.Where the hell was she?

    Then she was right in front of me. Right in front of me, looking at me with a smile. I just stared. A million things were going through my mind. She looked amazing. Her hair had some grey but her face and her smile were the same...cute as can be, pretty as a peach. I just stared.

    "Hi Thom" she said grinning, "it's Nancy". "I know who you are" I replied and we hugged. I kissed her cheek, bold bugger that I am , and it was just as soft as I thought it would be.

    We sat and talked a bit , but just a bit.She was late arriving and had many others to catch up with. I didn't monopolize her though I would have been happy to. I was happy just seeing her again.I was happy that she seems very happy with her life. I was happy to be able to spend a few minutes with her after all these years.

    I was happy.

    It is funny how the brain works....

Wednesday, 11 November 2009

  • Remembering On This Day

    My grandfather was born and raised in a  very small rural town in the middle of some of the best farmland in Canada.

    He was the oldest of 5 children and there was 10 years between him and the next sibling.My great grandfather was in the feed and fuel business, he sold grain and coal - later oil as well. It was a good business for the area and my grandfather naturally joined his father  working in the business when he became old enough. Old enough was 14 I think.

    It was 1912, if I remember correctly, that they decided to take a big step and buy a truck.You have to realize that there were not a lot of trucks in 1912, especially in a remote rural area.Purchasing a truck was a BIG deal. I remember my grandfather telling me how folks would run out to see it as it passed by.

    It took my grandfather a while to learn to drive, and to get used to the thing, but he eventually did. Having that truck was the best advertising they could have done. They were practically celebrities.It was the first truck in the entire region, and I can prove it.

    When war broke out in 1914 my grandfather signed up.It was the only thing to do.England was at war and Canada was part of the Commonwealth. Loyalty was fierce back then and there was no question that Canadians would follow England's lead. All the young men who weren't needed on their farms signed up.

    He was shipped to England after training and he and his buddies were all prepared to be sent over to Europe to take on the Kaiser. It was at this time that my family was blessed.

    Someone  of higher rank discovered that my grandfather knew how to drive a truck.

    Much to his disgust , he was plucked from his buddies and told he would serve in England. He would drive a supply truck from base to base. Food and equipment had to be delivered to the soldiers preparing to go fight. He was terribly disappointed and unhappy about it.

    It kept him out of the trenches. It kept him from being gassed.

    It kept him alive.

    His father died when he was overseas and he had to return to run the business and the family, becoming a father figure for his 4 younger siblings. He did a good job.

    One day at a train station he saw a lady wearing "a rather fetching hat". (when was the last time you heard something described as "fetching?").The feathers of that hat got tangled with another woman's feathers and he came to the rescue.

    They got married and had 3 children, boy-girl-boy.The girl was my mother.

    Her older brother also went to war. My uncle joined the air force and flew Lancaster bombers. I believe you had to fly 25 missions before you were rotated home.

    He and his crew were shot down over Bavaria on their 23rd mission.It was September 23rd 1943. There were no survivors.

    My uncle was 19 years old.

    My Mum who adored her older brother never got over it. I don't think anyone ever gets over something like that,ever. To this day she can't watch a war movie, and she would cry all day every September 23rd until my Cuddlebug was born on that day. Now she dotes on Cuddlebug, because Cuddlebug gave her a reason to end the pain of that day.

    But she never forgot her brother and all the others from her small community who served bravely and didn't come home. She and my Dad made sure we four kids didn't forget either.

    Now I make sure that my two kids don't forget.

    None of us must ever forget.

     

Monday, 09 November 2009

  • The Reunion Party

    I think it was back in May when I first heard about it. I heard that a girl I hadn't seen since I was in grade 10 was organizing a reunion party for all of us who were born in 1959. A fiftieth birthday party for all of us, a reunion for most of us.

    I was told that there was a notice on Classmates.com. I was intrigued, and actually paid the 15 bucks to join and check it out.Sure enough it was happening.I got a few messages on Facebook, which I hardly ever looked at at the time, but I started paying attention. I had been kicked out of my first highschool.I didn't graduate with these people, I honestly didn't think that many would even remember me.

    Let's face it, a lot of years have gone by, though I know you can't tell by looking at me.

    Well, I was surprised by how many did remember me and how many were right into this reunion party. I committed to go, and man oh man, am I ever glad I did.

    It was a fabulous evening. The organizers had rented out the ground floor of a bar that we used to frequent,hehehe. It was a dump then, it sure as hell isn't now.We had the place to ourselves from 4pm to 10 pm, food was served, the service was great and so were the tunes.

    But of course on a night such as this one, it is the people that make it. Most of these people I haven't seen since 1975, and believe me when I say...it was amazing seeing them again. There were 300 that they searched out and invited, 300 of us born that year.Some couldn't make it because of where they live, or whatever reason, but some came from all over Canada and the USA. Of the three hundred 140 showed up, not too shabby a turnout I'd say!!

    Of course I wasn't friends with all of them, and I was thankful we all got nametags upon signing in. I must admit my memory was a little faulty where some people were concerned. But I remembered a lot of them, and they remembered me. The cool thing was we all had different memories of each other.It was kind of fascinating actually.

    Naturally I looked great. I wore my black shirt under my black jacket with blue jeans. The jeans showed off my cute bum  and the black on black highlighted my thick black glossy locks to perfection. I got many compliments on my hair tonight.... a lot of the guys don't have hair anymore. Funny thing was, the last time I saw most of these people I had looooong hair, I don't now , yet everyone said I look just the same as I did.

    It was the women that really surprised me. I want to call them girls because that is how I remember most of them.I was honestly surprised at how great they looked. A few were fat, but not nearly as many as I expected.Most of them looked simply awesome. Naturally all the women I talked to fell in love with me.Some I'm sure have been in love with me since 1975 (poor things).It is nice to know that my boyish charms have not deserted me.

    I was also surprised at the number who never married, and/or never had children.I was really surprised by this actually. Our generation came from parents who rarely divorced and who raised families. I was fascinated by how many had the same shitty upbringing I had , behind closed doors.They turned their backs on what we were raised to believe.A lot have been divorced at least once, some more than once.It was an eye opener for me.

    And there are those of us who are no longer with us.Six friends who are dead ...and missed.
    It seemed a very high number out of just 300, who just turned 50.

    But all in all, it was a FABULOUS night. The conversation and laughter flowed. Mingling was easy and the atmosphere was terrific.I saw some people I really care about, that I had forgotten I cared about...if that makes sense.I saw a girl who lived down the street from me, she was always a pretty girl, I considered her wayyyy out of my league.She was never stuck up, always really nice, but because of that damned thing called adolescent boyhood I just never thought I had any chance with her.She came in from Alberta to be here tonight and we talked for quite awhile.She kept holding my hand as we talked. It was wonderful.

    It was wonderful to see them all again.

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  • rockstarbaby07080
    almost forgot, thanks for adding me!
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    you're welcome, plus, why do people think the movie was bad even though i thiough it was good? please inform me.
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    @rockstarbaby07080 - Thanks a lot. And thanks for reading and commenting.
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    Hey, How ya' doin' today!!?? I knew a guy named Rock in college, but you're by first Brick!
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    Write a novel. I want to be the first one to read it after publication. I just enjoyed reading all the ones you posted since this blog's creation. I digested this like I think Dr. Phil does crack. I thoroughly enjoyed reading everything - good stuff.
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    Hey Brick (I have a hard time calling you that....Tripper).....what memories your story brought back. I remember vividly our stage performance of twist and shout as well. Thanks for the smile..... I am enjoying your stories....keep them up....and please send your email address as promised. David
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